Diary: Learn to follow the crowd, with opened mindset, and one eye closed

Important lesson on 20 Jun 2026

to learn to follow the majority and appear to be following instructions, not to cause trouble and inconvenience others and the IC

can't know the location address for meeting and had to meet at MRT together and ended up waiting for the IC and her companion. Everyone had to wait and take a bus for one or two bus stops and not allowed to walk there even though some who had exited MRT earlier won't have transfer rebates after 45 minutes as the IC is pulling a luggage. All 20 of us mostly seniors. Speechless. 😶

Insisted that it won't be easy to reach there by foot even though some of them had been to the location before. Knowing the bus one stop away on my google map app, I wasn't allowed to meet them there or the Condominium and later commented during the meeting that I'm not following the group and likes to be on own as the IC intro me to the group as newcomer. I can only nod my head slightly keeping eye contact with the IC and remain silent. What a welcoming note.

By paying say 70 cents each for one stop each, 20 of us excluding the IC and her companion is about S$14 not a great sum that can be donated or put to better use.🙏

TK Vocabulary: E-E means 而已 and Fay Ler means 回了

Do you know..TK dictionary..?

1. the Big Wolf / Bad person 大野狼 / 坏人 : refers to TK Dardy. Usually used when TK Dardy is approaching TK bedroom before bed or coming into the house opening the grill gate / main door.

2. Bitu : Anything TK likes. Eg. Bitu teacher, Bitu friend etc.

3. No more..when the food is finished.

4. pssst..pssst : the christmas lights on the christmas tree

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My boy is gor gor who likes haircut by Mama

18 Jun Thur broke own personal record time to do a haircut with only a pair of big scissors and swept 95% of the hair on the floor using bare hands before rushing out for work. 💇

822nd week of motherhood

Mon 22 Jun last week of school holidays

Tue 23 Jun had been sleeping late and feeling lethargic

Wed 24 Jun Went for Mega long queue and completed the long wait at 5plus and happy trolley of groceries with bananas, vegetables, Ribena less sugar, peaches, instant noodles, rock salt, pasta, etc

Thur 25 Jun Finally made it to the Mandai Wildlife Adventure West but missed by 70min to enter the East by 5pm. We didn't queue or enter any of the 9 Adventures as the complimentary tickets don't include the adventures. We covered all the 7 treks and spent our time chilling inside the air-conditioned limestone cave. Tickets for adults at $88 and child at $75 per bundle, $10 per adventure+

Fri 26 Jun Today I face my own karma. There's no way to influence a young mind with ideas by force with free will and democracy in modern society. Preference for white light gained victory over yellow light. There is no compromise. No space for discussion. Heart broken. Struggling to heal.💔

Sat 27 Jun last weekend of school holidays

Sun 28 Jun school reopens tomorrow

Day 1 at TT

Started a brand new career journey on 31 May 2026 with my family's support. It's not as difficult as it seems as I'm blessed to join a great team and all went well on first day. More to come. Will try my best to overcome challenges. My mentor is a humble and patient person.😌